Message from Gail Sharp
July 2024
I just found out that the envelope of 2023 tax information I prepared (including documents saved throughout the year, receipts, charitable donations, etc.) was never received by my tax professional. I made no copies. This year happened to be an extra complicated year AND for someone unknown reason (senior brain?) I didn't send the stuff in any traceable way. Who does this??? (âīšâ) Not surprisingly, I kicked myself repeatedly and then spiraled down an overly dramatic panic path.
Here I am, living an incredibly wonderful life with good health, wonderful friends, a great business, but I was despondent. Frantic thoughts! What am I going to do? And then, thankfully, I took a breath and realized I can do this. Break it down, do what I can and just keep going. It will take time and I probably won't be able to recreate it all perfectly, but it's not catastrophic! I can go through old bank statements, credit card bills, emails. Call my mortgage company, the county, the
insurance company. Yep, I'm older. Wiser…well, maybe.
Looking back, I am surprised that I reacted so badly. Where was my reason, my gratitude, my perspective? I'm working on forgiving myself for this over-the-top behavior and hoping I can use this annoying frustration – when and if I come to a larger, more troubling issue – to take a breath and break the problem down into small steps.
I do know a wonderful place to go and take care of stressful little issues (bigger ones, too) where there's a family of caring people and a gorgeous setting to ease life's complications. I hope you think of TallGrass as your special place to recuperate and rest. It's particularly special this time of year with flowers, hummingbirds, and sunshine! It certainly helps me return to sanity!
Gail Sharp is the owner of TallGrass Spa and Salon. Email her at sharpgail@aol.com .
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